I am [not] kind.
I am [not] a leader.
I am [not] a good wife.
I am [not] smart.
I am [not] thin.
I am [not] organized.
I am [not] calm.
I am [not] abstinent.
I am [not] important.
I am [not] determined.
I am [not] optimistic.
I am [not] focused.
I am [not] beautiful.

But...

I [am] a great mother.